|Not exactly how I picture my relationship with Jesus.|
My relationship to my husband is very important to me but comes in second to my relationship with Christ.
I like to say this to point out how important Jesus is to me. I like to say it to show how intimate a relationship with Christ is. In m fact many times I tell Mark, “You’re my favorite...next to Jesus.” This idea, that I place someone (Christ) at a higher level in my life than I place my husband stands out in conversations with both believers and non-believers. It makes a point and it stands out. It is a good illustration about how Jesus should be a priority in the lives of Christians....But is it true?
Do I really put Christ before my husband? If I determine this by how much time and energy I put into each relationship I often doubt that I put Christ first. There are days that I forget to spend time in the Word. There are days that I forget to pray or I don’t pray the way I should. I don’t think I’ve yet to forget to cook my husband dinner. I talk to my husband everyday, I tell him I love him often. I have to admit that there are some days I don’t have much of a conversation with Jesus, and I definitely tell Mark I love him more than I tell Jesus I love him. In theory, I put more importance towards my relationship with Christ, but in practice is this a reality?
My marriage is a covenant marriage and it involves not just Mark and I, but Jesus Christ, as well. We are a 3-fold cord. So I could argue that investing into my marriage and making it work is part of following Christ.
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall become united and cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24
I am cleaved to Mark. Completely. We are one flesh. I never tire of his company. We not only love each other, we genuinely like each other. Mark is my best friend, my lover, my confidante. I cannot foresee a time in our marriage when we don’t have a million things to talk about, when we don’t long to be around each other. If I didn’t know Christ I would say that Mark is my everything. But making your spouse your everything is dangerous and unhealthy and usually leads to disappointment. While I find it easy to cleave and unite to my husband, Christ is what keeps balance in our relationship.
Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, be subject to your own husbands as [a service] to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the Head of the church, Himself the Savior of [His] body. As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. Ephesians 5:21-24
I follow these commands. If I strive to be a godly wife and serve my husband as the Bible tells me to, then I am also serving the Lord. Does this mean that every marital act I perform is not only for my husband but also for Christ?
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|Duckies we fed at the park last week!|
Do you put Christ before your spouse? What does this look like in your marriage? Have you gone to church alone since you got married? Why?
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